STRONG...
you said he had 3 daughtwrs back in haiti he loved...
if he really loved them, thats where he would be, remember, a man that can leave his kids, certainly is gonna leave you. Also you mentioned his kids go to private school...
there are bad kids in all types of schools...
and lastly, the true trait of a haitian woman...
you say in the end you wouldnt take $$$ from him unless his obligations are settled, sounds like a golddigger to me...