As a Haitian woman, I don't believe that my husband should carry all the load of the household.
I don't put money first in our relationship, I just think of all the love we share instead of putting a $ value on him. I make so much more money than my husband.
I assure him every day that, no matter how much money I make he will always be my king and I treat him as such. My friends disagree with my way of thinking; I always say to them that, I did not fall in love with his wallet, I love him regardless he can buy me 10 dozen roses or 1 rose.