I totally agree with your statement.
Haitian men tend to think that women should bow down to them and they should still continue to behave like teenagers.
Respect goes both ways; however, fighting fire with fire only causes more damage.
My tactic is to wait until my husband calms down than we talk about the issue.
#3, know when the time is right to address an issue, don't embarrass him in public
#4, keep your friends out of the discussion, it is better for both parties