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by Jhonnie on 2/21
I have been in a realtionship with a haitian man and he shows me no affection in or out of bed and there's no nothing in our relationship it seems that he is afraid to show me that he cares, We as American women are use to some type of affection in a realtionship.The truth he is still married and that really and i just found out after 2years together, I am hurt disappointed and to say shattered,
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by Marieflorence on 11/11
I beleive in a good relationship money shouldn't be matter if you really want to go further with your husband either way is ok, the man can bring the money so do the woman, it's all about the family.
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by Aniela on 8/17
I was married to a haitian man for 10 years and now remarried to another one.
Haitian men are the only men i will ever date or married.
Despite the fact that they are controlling and hard to please, i think they are better than a lot of other man out there, especial black americann men. Black american men are pure trash compare to haitian men.
Haitian men are the only men that will take care of their responsibilities.
When they really care about their women, especially if she is haitian also, he will move mountains day and night to provide for her and his kids.
Yes they lie and cheat and expect the woman to cook, clean and take care of the children, but most man do regardless where they come from.
I do not care what people say, but i would rather die poor and miserable with a haitian man than to do it with any other nationality.
I believe in my strong black HAITIAN MEN.
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by jewwell, replying to Aniela on 16-Nov-09 05:28 AM
Hi I am an African American woman married to a Haitian man for 14 years.
He is a very tall, dark and handsome man. At first many Haitian women would give me dirty looks, and he takes me everywhere he goes even now 16 years into our relationship.
I am a very attractive Black woman, and could not understand why women would give me hateful stares.
His family even gave us a nickname of a haitian couple whom you would never see one without the other.
We enjoy each other's company, and LOVE to be together.
Many Haitian women ask always how is he?
Is he a good man?
Because they say their men are not...
but I cannot complain.
He is a great provider, he takes care of himself physically, spiritually, and is gorgeous! What more could a woman ask for?
PS...
we treat each other with respect and most of all we are friends! Some were also shocked that my husband wears his wedding ring daily, I was shocked about that question, but I guess their husbands do not??
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by shireen, replying to jewwell on 02-Dec-09 09:23 PM
I am dating a Hatian man and I know in my heart of hearts that he is a good man. I appreciate your comments on this. Because if I mention that my new boyfriend is Hatian they say OH NO...
RUN! He wants to move our relationship forward to marriage, but I am nervous because I was married before and so was he. So thanks for your experience.
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by Taina on 4/10
I have to say that I've never been with a man more difficult to satisfy in my life...
I find haitian men to be the most difficult to deal with and they have the highest demands and expectations in a women...
They expect you to be superwoman at home, and they don't show appreciation or any compasion...
They expect you to work your butt off at all time and god forbid you don't feel good for a day or two or you want to relax for a day or two because you are human...
They are only happy as long as you feeding them, and as long as you are busting your butt at home at all time...
They show no appreciation, they are cold and emotionally detached...
I know alot of haitian man and alot of woman that have a haitian man say they all seem to have that in common...
Love my haitian man, but that's the sad truth...
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by Dee Nice on 12/27
Of course yes.Men and women are born with the same dsire and I think that women are no men slaves...
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by Jean Mackendy Alerte on 9/19
the woman haitian can show u love just when u get rich and ready to die
thats the easily way for them
the haitian have a heart for the children ofcourse they show always love to the haitian woman but cause of the situation of our country even u get money not easy to get the real love ive tried to many times in my life even sacrifice i ve made to be a conqueror is it like we say en creol se lave men sye ate so u can understand the case to have the real love now in our country u most a busneesman then u think its the good one ur happy at list its the bigger mistake u have done to believe a woman for me the real love exist but not easy to catsh him thats all ..
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by Tatou on 5/6
I totally agree with your statement.
Haitian men tend to think that women should bow down to them and they should still continue to behave like teenagers.
Respect goes both ways; however, fighting fire with fire only causes more damage.
My tactic is to wait until my husband calms down than we talk about the issue.
ground rules
#1, no name calling, profanity, or screaming
#2, do not aggravate the situation, leave the past where it belongs
#3, know when the time is right to address an issue, don't embarrass him in public
#4, keep your friends out of the discussion, it is better for both parties
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by Tatou on 5/6
As a Haitian woman, I don't believe that my husband should carry all the load of the household.
I don't put money first in our relationship, I just think of all the love we share instead of putting a $ value on him. I make so much more money than my husband.
I assure him every day that, no matter how much money I make he will always be my king and I treat him as such. My friends disagree with my way of thinking; I always say to them that, I did not fall in love with his wallet, I love him regardless he can buy me 10 dozen roses or 1 rose.
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by Mel on 5/6
I think that now a days no matter what you do, relationship is very hard work to maintain.
If there's love, understanding, trust, communication, humbleness, relationship can survive practically everything.
However, Haitian Women have that tendancy when their making more money than their husband or boyfriend, they feel like they are untouchable.
In this case i think Haitian Women should learn how to be humble in other for their marriage to work, or relationship.
It's not impossible, but it takes two to tango.
Haitian Men should learn how to treat women better so that the women can still love them and respect them regardless.
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by Wendy on 7/7
It sounds bad men I know but their does come a time that they will settle.
My Haitian man did all the controlling, obsessive behavior and cheating and one day I said alright two can play that game. Left him and six months later I was making big purchases and found another man(though I did not really care for this new man as my heart belonged to my haitian love).
Well he came back and takes 50% of the responsibilities with the home, kids, cars, ect. So let me tell you ladies they do change as all men do and I am sure all you men out there can say the same thing.
Although my man does say it has something to do with my ethnic back ground of being Italian and German mix although I was born in Canada! All the best for you as their are cultural differences and if you are firm but patient it will all work out but no man is the same!
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