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by 777flower on 11/7
Remember we should not generalize to a whole population and say that all Haitian men are a certain way. Just like in any ethnic group or racial group, there are good and there are not so good people.
Just thought I'd throw that out there.
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by Johnnie on 10/2
I spent over 2 1/2 years not knowing the man whom i shared my life with..until he gotten into a car accident and then i found out that he were still married and he showed no affection nor did he show remorse and he stated that i disrespected him..
most haitian men think little of women and believe we should serve there every need...
i am an american born and raised with morals and values and know that i deserve better and have dropped that louse...
and found the most wonderful man ever...
and you better believe he is not haitian...
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by Tenacious on 10/2
I dated a Haitian male on and off for 3 years.
This male (cannot call him a man) was very deceptive, which I did not realize until the end of our relationship.
He adjusted his life goals to match mine, which I assumed we were compatible; only to find out this male was living a double life. After reading the posts in this forum, he definitely fits the characteristics of a Haitian male and that of a psychopath; superficial charm, unreliability, untruthfulness and insincerity, lack of remorse, poor judgment and failure to learn from experience, unresponsiveness in general interpersonal relations and failure to follow any life plan. One poster stated she married a Haitian and now she is miserable, I know that would have been me if I had married this person.
We, well he had a discuss about if he had another child (he had 1 when we met) how he would be miserable, needless to say he ended up having another child with a female, but expected me to marry him. I assume the saying is true, misery loves company, but it will not be my company.
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by Mstaylor08 on 9/4
I agree! They will wine and dine you and have a wife at home
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by Jhonnie on 2/21
I have been in a realtionship with a haitian man and he shows me no affection in or out of bed and there's no nothing in our relationship it seems that he is afraid to show me that he cares, We as American women are use to some type of affection in a realtionship.The truth he is still married and that really and i just found out after 2years together, I am hurt disappointed and to say shattered,
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by Shireen on 12/2
I am dating a Hatian man and I know in my heart of hearts that he is a good man. I appreciate your comments on this. Because if I mention that my new boyfriend is Hatian they say OH NO...
RUN! He wants to move our relationship forward to marriage, but I am nervous because I was married before and so was he. So thanks for your experience.
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by Jewwell on 11/16
Hi I am an African American woman married to a Haitian man for 14 years.
He is a very tall, dark and handsome man. At first many Haitian women would give me dirty looks, and he takes me everywhere he goes even now 16 years into our relationship.
I am a very attractive Black woman, and could not understand why women would give me hateful stares.
His family even gave us a nickname of a haitian couple whom you would never see one without the other.
We enjoy each other's company, and LOVE to be together.
Many Haitian women ask always how is he?
Is he a good man?
Because they say their men are not...
but I cannot complain.
He is a great provider, he takes care of himself physically, spiritually, and is gorgeous! What more could a woman ask for?
PS...
we treat each other with respect and most of all we are friends! Some were also shocked that my husband wears his wedding ring daily, I was shocked about that question, but I guess their husbands do not??
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by Marieflorence on 11/11
I beleive in a good relationship money shouldn't be matter if you really want to go further with your husband either way is ok, the man can bring the money so do the woman, it's all about the family.
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by Wifey411 on 10/19
I am married to a Haitian man and he WAS everything until I said I-DO! Now it just seem like the only thing that matters is making babies.
He has become very controling also. I really think he only married me because I would be a great mother and wife. But honestly, I dont have time for this! He did a complete 360 and now is a person I never wanted to marry.
I really think people should stop sugar coating the real person withing...
Just be real people.
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by Paradise on 9/16
I wasn't going to comment on any of these issues, however after reading all of the negatives inspite of a few positives it was warranted a comment.
First my fiance is a native of Haiti and I am a native of Trinidad.
We have been together for two years and is getting married in one month.This man treat me like GOLD! he's never controlling and always a gentleman in every aspect, there's nothing he would not do for me and my two kids, he cleans, cook, food shop etc. I have to admit he's slightly jelous and so am i, this is a natural trait of a human being.I love my "trini" men but I won't give up this one.
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