Haitian Relationship Tips

Mia's Issue About Her Haitian Guy Friend

i dont know mia but that sounds though..hope it works out for ya

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Dating Foreigners

I had that happened to me, I just brought the guy to meet my mom and she told him her concerns about us dating; that a lot of people will have issues with us dating one another.

In the end we broke up he and I learned that not everyone can handle the stress of dating someone from different cultural background

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Not Really

Haitian people are very repectful people.

They are nice to strangers but just don't miss with them cuz they will kill you. If you respect them, they will respect you. If you are a nice person they will like you.

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Boring In Bed

I give heads some times.

I wounld never do the butt thing.

I kinda boring a bed I just lie there can some help me.

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Haitian Relationship Tips

I don't know how all Haitian man likes it but I do know how my man likes it. My man likes for me to take control of everything he loves to be pleased so I do my best to please him everytime.

He has never asked me to take it from the butt and I'm glad cause I don't go that way.

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Try It Rose

Hey Rose

Dont speak so fast Rose.He might be shy for some buuddy sex. try it Rose.Dont let someone else give it to him. You might lose him. Again try it Rose

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Re: Men Read This!! Women Too

I wasn't going to comment on any of these issues, however after reading all of the negatives inspite of a few positives it was warranted a comment.

First my fiance is a native of Haiti and I am a native of Trinidad.

We have been together for two years and is getting married in one month.This man treat me like GOLD! he's never controlling and always a gentleman in every aspect, there's nothing he would not do for me and my two kids, he cleans, cook, food shop etc. I have to admit he's slightly jelous and so am i, this is a natural trait of a human being.I love my "trini" men but I won't give up this one.

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Haitian Relationship Tips

I think it all depends on the person's background and upbringing, I feel that some issues needs to be discussed and worked out before going forward in the relationship, most people don't discuss finances until there's a problem and that's when things start to fall apart, I'm sure people just talk it out before moving in or marriage.And why not just have an account for your bills and yet maintain personnal accounts, if the 2 are communicating, than it does matter who pays the bills, and who makes more, some people just don't know how to share and are not real honest with their partner about what they want and puts up a front, It's not a husband job to pay the bills, as a partner if the two cares the discussion should take place befor the bills start to come in.Not all women wants their bills and some women do make more then their husbands, and they get along, it's communication people there lies your problem and your solution.

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Re: Haitian Man

I am married to a Haitian man and he WAS everything until I said I-DO! Now it just seem like the only thing that matters is making babies.

He has become very controling also. I really think he only married me because I would be a great mother and wife. But honestly, I dont have time for this! He did a complete 360 and now is a person I never wanted to marry.

I really think people should stop sugar coating the real person withing...

Just be real people.

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Ti Bebe Makers Not All Haitain Men

Ti Cheri

You got the wrong man. Keep looking or quit spreading your legs maybe donnors wont donate sperm.

Share this with some of your friends.

Sorry if I sound a little rough, but it looks like some (Haitian) man gave you A TI BEBE and married you just for the hell of it. If that is the case. Keep your head up and do your best for yourself, and if there is a TI BEBE involved well love yourself first because if you can not love you then it will be very hard to love any body. Specialy TI BEBE. Love you cheri.

Judy

Reply Back to me if you can

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Haitian Men Are Strong Men!

am love with a haitian man and am from the bahamas i have kids that are not his that he met me with, he also has kids 3 girls in haiti, whom he loves to death ! and he will never let a month goes by with out sending there monies for them .they are well taken care of and is attending private school, so it is not good to put all haitian men in the same boat ther are some good ones and there are some bad ones and i alway ask him if his are ok and taken care of first before i accept monies from!

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Doing What Youre Supposed To Do Doesnt Make You

STRONG...

you said he had 3 daughtwrs back in haiti he loved...

if he really loved them, thats where he would be, remember, a man that can leave his kids, certainly is gonna leave you. Also you mentioned his kids go to private school...

what does that mean ?

there are bad kids in all types of schools...

and lastly, the true trait of a haitian woman...

you say in the end you wouldnt take $$$ from him unless his obligations are settled, sounds like a golddigger to me...

not a mention of love.

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Haitian Men Are Not Sperm Donor

I totally disagree with that about haitian men as sperm donor.

THis is a total lie.most haitian men work hard to take of their children and their entire family.

they'd rather work two jobs than not being able to take care of their children.

only the losers are sperm donors.

let's stereotype too much about haitian men sure they're a little controling but they're alright.

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White Woman Says American Men Are Controlling

Haitian men are kind and protective

they work hard and love their children.

I don't know many haitian people but

the people I know are very polite

and care about other people.Which is more

than I can say about white men.

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Don't Be So Quick To Judge A Black American Woman

Well I have been married for over 14 years to my husband and I am a american woman.

I don;t see what the problem is with haitian & black american to hook up. God created all of us and he made us all different for many reason.

Please don't be so quick to judge a black american woman who falls in love with her haitian prince.

One day you will fine that prince for you...

Keep praying God will send him you way...

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Re: Roland Dorfeuille A/k/a: Piram

piram was one of the haitian who could make me feel proud to be haittian on this day i would like to present my regrets to his family and haitian in general.

may god rest and bless your soul you will be deeply missed.

Joe Chaperon University of mass at Dartmouth

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Re: Roland Dorfeuille A/k/a: Piram

Nous savions bien que nous vivons tous pour mourrir un jour. Neanmoins, il est toujours dur de laisser mourrir les gens qu'on aime. avec regret, je presente mes sympathies a la famille Dorfeuille, ainsi qu'aux proches du defunt affectes par ce deuil.

Piram restera a jamais vivant dans nos coeur.

Paix a son ame.

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Re: Roland Dorfeuille A/k/a: Piram

ce avek chagren le mwen aprann lanmor piram yo neg ki te fe pale anpil de li piram wale se vre men zev ouap toujou rete piram ou minm ki te fem fye deske mwen sot nan canpaye mwen respekte ou anpil ale an pe piram jodia se ou demain kapab youn n nan nou avek regret pipi ke te ya kapab lege sou ou

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Re: Roland Dorfeuille A/k/a: Piram

frapper par des emmotion apres avoir appris la mort de roland dorfeuille connus sous le nom piram ce type la m;avait fait fier d'etre un campagnard piram est parti mais ses oeuvres resteront pour toujours je fier de toi piram aller en paix piram aujourd'huit c'est ton tour demain ce sera les notre a dieu que la terre lourde soit legere

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Re: Roland Dorfeuille A/k/a: Piram

I'm sorry to hear that but today is his turn tomorrow is someone else bon courage que Dieu vous benisse.

Que la paix de Dieu soit avec vous tous.

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Haitian Men

I can truly say that Haitian men can be nice at the same they can be womanisers.

I dated one for 7 years and I am telling u- he treated me well but always cheated.

I know he watched everything I did, but I did not feel like a prisoner I felt more deprived because he always knew what I did, maybe he had some demon or something following me. When they love u they u, but there's a price to pay cause they can't seem to be with one woman at a time. They are very romantic at least the one I had was..

I was terrified of marrying him cause I did not want to spend the rest of my life checking what he was doing

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Re: Haitian Men

I agree! They will wine and dine you and have a wife at home

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Everybodyneedsadjustment

Everybody needs adjustment if they are coming from a different cultural background it doest matter where.

Man or woman.

women too have difficulties adjusting just like men the point here is that men from other parts of the world other than Europe and the usa dont usually participate in household chores and taking care of kids meaning bathing them, feeding or cooking or laundry so cos in the usa thats a shared responsibility it takes a while b4 they finally blend in the system but its understandable too.I come from Africa and men in Africa dont cook unless the educated ones even them its not like its a shared chore its just when hes in the mood of being romantic with his woman he will do stuff like help out with the cooking laundry but usually in africa educated people have services of a livein maid so our men practically do nothing in the home other than provide a 100% for the family.

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Haitian Mans Roe Is To There For The Woman In His

I love haitian maen though am not haitian myself.

I love them for so many different qualities one thing about haitian men is that they will please a woman in that section but are not really romantic and they have this ego which can be mistaken for being mean or arrogant but i just love them and I would date another haitian guy despite my disappointment with this particular one.

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Hahaha! I'm !

Comment allez-vous "foreign sweeties"?

Don't you worry guys.We hatian men are sometimes good or bad with ladies just like the rest of the world.So, it's up to you, when it comes to choose a man to deal with.

Point barre! That's it!

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Re: Haitian Relationship Tips

Haitain men as passionate as their women.

They tend to see themselves as the bread winners no matter the cost. The women are basically back to the 17th Century where they are expected to cook, clean and spread their legs whenever the rooster calls.

Oral sex is absolutely important to them...

After being married to a 33 yr old man who cannot see my need for a career, and indendence I have had it. Good luck to the next woman.

Did I mention the man has 4 kids from 2 different mothers AMEN! and GOODBYE

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Re: Haitian Relationship Tips

My dude is backward.

I mean his mental thinking capacity is like my grandfathers.

Some comments he makes...

I almost want to ask him if he is in the present 2005 going to 2006 year!

He is obssessive, over-protective, a loner, sex-maniac and over-controlling.

I have been depressed and stuck in a situation beyond my control! He has manipulated everything about my life to the point that I lost my temper and decided that I am better of on my own. I had to make the choice to ignore, get up and leave the relationship.

He tried on various occasions to get me pregnant so that he could feel that 'he owns me' however it backfired because I was precautious! Someone tell me that he is one of a kind because at this point I NEVER want to date another HAITIAN man!

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Re: Haitian Relationship Tips

easy on this bashing I am a good haitian man when it comes to relationships.

I came to the US when i was 9 maybey that made a difference.

All I am saying is there are some good ones out there..

Like me...

sorry for rest of the losers i know a few so i see where you ladies are coming from...

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I Love Haitian Men But

Well it's good to know they're good Haitian me out there b/c I love Haitian men I just haven't been able to find one that's a good man with drive and wants to do something meaningful instead of being a big players and try control women.

AND PLEASE HAITIAN MEN STOP STANDING OUTSIDE OF THE BARBER SHOPS HOLLARING AT WOMEN it's demeaning to your character and we won't take u seriously.

Besides the type of women u should want will not even turn around.

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Well Thats Good To Know

Well it's good to know they're good Haitian me out there b/c I love Haitian men I just haven't been able to find one that's a good man with drive and wants to do something meaningful instead of being a big players and try control women.

AND PLEASE HAITIAN MEN STOP STANDING OUTSIDE OF THE BARBER SHOPS HOLLARING AT WOMEN it's demeaning to your character and we won't take u seriously.

Besides the type of women u should want will not even turn around.

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Ladies You Have More In You

I moved in the states in 1999 as a student and I was 23 years old. 6 months before I left Haiti I met my wife. She left Haiti when she was very young.

I started a long-term relationship with her. Almost two years after I moved here, I decided to married her. I am now finishing a doctorate degree, have a great job. I believe after my salvation she is the best thing that could ever happened to me.

I recently moved in Florida with my job, one thing I've learned here most haitian women in Florida are desperate, because they don't know their values.

I believe life in general is a matter of choice.

When I met my wife she was overweight and she still overweight.

But she has something inside of her. My wife may not have the outward apperance a young man like me will need in a wife, but she has character.

She knows hersel.

I am grateful she does not have to old a job outside our home, she works with me, taking care of our kids, herself and of couse her husband.

But my point is: Until you know yourself, no one will know it for you.

LEAVE THAT STAGE OF DESPARATION! YOU;RE SPECIAL.

You just need to know it, once you it the Haitian's men will have no other Choice!

Blessings

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Haitian Relationship Tips

I aggree to must of what you wrote, the only thing I don't agree with is th comments you made about women in Florida.

I moved i Florida at 17 years of age, went to high school and have a bachelor degree, I will not stop there because I know what I'm capable of, is more than a bachelor degree.

My point is, it doesn't matter what state or country you leave in, the thing is either for men or women, you need to have vision in life, you need to be more specific don't be general about women in Florida, you need to make exception.

Any state you go to you will find some desperate haitian women, just because they don't have no purpose in life.

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Not always, I dated 5 american girls in Haiti and a girl from Europe before I met my wonderful wife. But when I met my wife I knew something was different, and she has proved it to me.

There is no better thing to find when you fin a women who understand herself and her values

Haitian loves Haitian women!

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Dont Let Fake Love Give You Heartache For Life

you are the one in the relationship so you are the one to know if he loves you or not. depend on how he treats you or behave while he is with you, you can defenitely come up with a decision.

Now now matter how much you love me if you know that he is playing game, baby walk out on him and find yourself a better man.

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